Let’s assume for a minute that you have met a
great girl and that you want more than a one-
night-stand. You want to have a good time with
her because you want to develop a long-term
relationship.
I believe that there isn’t a perfect general
place for all first dates, just the perfect place
for you and your future date. One where you have
been with your ex date and it was great, could be
a wrong choice for your date with another girl.
Make sure your first date will be a success
choosing the right place. There are some rules
and criteria that will help you to make the best
decision:
- For your very first meeting it is suggested
that you only make it brief but fun, inexpensive
and relaxing. - Chose the place for the first date according
your date’s age and lifestyle. Maybe you don’t
know too much about the women you are going to
ask for a date, but you can make a clue about her,
looking to how she is dressing and watching the
type of people she is hanging around. - Particularly on a first date, you may wish to
leave early, or so may they. An exit plan for
both guys and girls is always useful. - Dates that will make you interact with the
other person and share both your interests will
not only teach you more about them, but also show
how compatible you actually are. Sporting events,
concerts and picnics are great places for first
dates. You can talk, and being outside,
everything feels less claustrophobic. It’s easy
and relaxed and clothing usually isn’t a problem - It makes a difference if you can find
something that she will remember for a long time.
If in your area is an event like circus, carnival,
festival, don’t miss it and you two will have
more fun than at a coffee place that’s for sure.
There wouldn’t be any pressure; you’ll only have
to enjoy the company. - If you are dating late in the evening make
sure that you walk in places where your date is
feeling safe. Don’t forget that she does not know
you very well and being alone with you in a place
that is not public can make her feel insecure. It
is normal!
By being unique and creative, you’ll stand out
among the other guys she’s dated and she will
want to be with you again.