Be Simply Irresistible . . .
How To Attract Everything You Desire Effortlessly!
- Create an environment that naturally pulls you forward so things like commitment and discipline are optional. Being pulled forward is attractive, pushing forward is not.
- Over respond to every event. By over responding instead of overacting, you evolve which is very attractive.
- Build reserves in every area of your life. Having enough is not nearly enough for you to be Irresistible Attractive. Stop running your life on adrenaline.
- Add value just for the joy of it. When you add value just because you enjoy it, people are naturally attracted to you.
- Market your talents shamelessly. If you are embarrassed about what you do , you won’t be very attractive.
- Become irresistible attractive to yourself. How can you attract others if you don’t feel irresistible attractive to yourself?
- Get a fulfilling life, not just an impressive lifestyle. A great lifestyle is attractive, lifestyles can be seductive.
- Deliver twice what you promise.When you consistently deliver more than was expected, new customers are drawn to you.
- Unhook yourself from the future. Attraction works in the present, not in the future.
- Eliminate delay. Time is expensive and delays are very unattractive.
- Get your personal needs met, once and for all. If you have unmet needs, you will attract others in the same position. Needs are not optional. Create a Sass!
- Tolerate nothing. When you put up with something, it costs you. Costs are expensive and very unattractive.
- Show others how to please you. Don’t make them guess.
- Endorse your worst weakness and shadow. When you accept and honor the worst part of yourself you are free and more accepting of others.
- Sensitize yourself. The more you feel, the more you notice and respond to the many subtle opportunities in the present.
- Perfect your environment. Create an environment that brings out your brilliance versus one that drains you.
- See how perfect the present really is especially when it is clearly not.
- Orient exclusively around your values. When you spend your days doing what fulfills you, you are a magnet for attraction.
- Simplify everything. Abandon the non essentials and leave room for you to attract.
- Master your craft. Being the best at what you do is the easiest way to become successful.
- Recognize and tell the truth. The truth is the most attractive thing of all, and it requires skill and awareness.
- Be more human. When you are genuine, you are attractive.
Are You A Coaching Candidate?
- Do you spend your day putting out fires?
- Do you have any concerns about your business running at maximum profitability?
- Do you run your business on the edge?
- Do the same problems continually resurface?
- Do you have difficulty finding someone you trust who can give you an objective viewpoint and bounce ideas off of?
- Is your business running you?
- Do you find that you are unable to make the most of all the opportunities in your life?
- Do you experience roller coaster highs and lows in your business?
- Do you have a lone ranger lifestyle?
- Do you allow your goals and purpose to get sidetracked?
- Do you lack having a clear, measurable action plan to fulfill your goals?
- Do you lack structure?
- Do you lack inner fulfillment?
- Do you spend most of your day working “in” your business instead of “on” it?
- Are you a workaholic?
- Are you experiencing a lack of balance in your life and business?
- Are you committed to growing yourself and your company?
- Are you coachable? (Are you willing to hear and act on another’s person’s viewpoint?)
- Do you lack a clear financial plan for your future?
- Are you willing to be truthful and restore your integrity?
- If you answered yes to more than three of these questions you can benefit from a coach.
Questions A Coach May Ask You:
- What five opportunities are you leaving on the table?
- How might you sabotage our professional relationship?
- How have you been motivated in the past to reach difficult goals or make difficult decisions? How can we best utilize that motivation now?
- How would you do this differently if you were willing to let it be easy?
- What would happen if you showed up ten times more bolder this week in every aspect of your life?
- What are the 10 things you are tolerating or putting up with that are preventing you from performing at your best?