You are in a relationship for a long time, maybe
already married and you can bet that she loves
you with all her heart. You know this since she
forgives you for the first time when you cheated
her. She just can’t live without you. Are you
sure? Think again!
When a man is getting something wrong for the
first time in a relationship, he will feel a
little insecure. But if his woman is forgiving
him easily he will become secure of her love and
more powerful.
What a friend of mine said to me is that you, by
being a man, can make anything to a woman because
if you go next day to her and say that you’re
sorry and you love her, she will be happy to
forgive you.
What my friend didn’t know is that after a woman
forgives him, maybe she didn’t realize but she
loves him less. And after a while if she is keeps
forgiving him, one day he will be socked to
realize that she doesn’t love him any more. Why?
Because she is feeling weak, miserable every time
she forgives him.
We have to be consciously about the fact that in
any relationship there is a power rapport between
man and woman. One of them is manipulating the
other. Don’t get me wrong, this is not a bad
thing, as long as the one that is in charge is
looking for his partner interests too.
The secret to make a human being to stay with you
is to make that person to feel good. I have found
on internet the words “I love you not for who you
are, but for who I am when I am next to you.” I
believe that we all have to think hard to these
words, but looking from our partner position.
It matters less who you are in a relationship!
But this is a fact that we, men, can accept
harder. Don’t we? 🙂
Let’s suppose that you are meeting two girls at
the same time. Nice thought :). But you have to
decide which one of them to choose for a long
term relationship. One of them is good looking,
sexy, with a great career but is only talking
about her: her future, her dreams, her plans, all
about her. The second is just a nice girl, is
listening to you, laughing to your jokes and she
already said to you that you are a great guy and
she believe that your future is a success one.
Which one you want next to you?
Now just stay for a moment and remember when was
the last time when you have made your woman to
feel that she is the best? Last month when she
had forgiven you one more time? I don’t think so!
I have just one more question that I would like
you to consider: For how long you think that your
women will stay beside you?