Snap Out Of Your Anger and Create Joy In Your Relationships!
We are driven to find joy, happiness and fulfillment within our relationships. Dr. Adrianne Ahern’s SNAP Out of It NOW! Method offers a step-by-step guide to transforming stress, anxiety, self-doubt, anger, and other negative feelings into something completely positive. Snap Out of It Now! Create joy and happiness in your relationships!
Take the Walking on Eggshells Quiz
Walking on eggshells does serious and last harm to your sense of self. But there is hope.
Marriage Counseling: Using Games to Reduce Tension
Trouble at home? Play an easy game and watch married strife disappear.
Confide For Less Anger In Your Marriage
Jose and Juanita have been married for 17 years, and basically love each other, yet have been fighting over the same issue almost every night of those years: She likes it cold at night and he likes it warm in their house and bedroom. She had just opened their bedroom windows for the night. When she left to visit the bathroom, she heard Jose follow her and close all the windows.
Let’s eavesdrop to see what we can learn about this fight and what to do about it.
—(curtai…
Forgive For Less Marital Anger
Stacy’s partner of twelve years does not come home one evening and she knew he was with a former lover. He begged for another chance with Stacy, but her pride and anger held her back. Stacy said she would feel like a fool if she forgave him, even though she still loved him. Stacy didn’t end the relationship, but reminds him daily of what he did to her.
Should Stacy forgive her otherwise good husband for what he did? Of course, only Stacy can make this decision.
Fact is,…
Six Repair Tools For Your Marriage
Rudy and Marjorie were on the verge of divorce. Married 12 years, they had constant verbal battles ending in what therapists call call emotional disengagement— meaning that they simply ignored each other for days on end.
Emotionally, they were simmering inside and also lonely for each other, but were unable to reach out and communicate these feelings. They were in a “cold war” with both waiting for the other to make the first move to melt the icy atmosphere.
This couple…
Divorce and Rowing to Emotional Recovery
Stages of emotional recovery; denial to action, skillfully presented in the first person.
2 Easy Ways To Manage Your Anger
Anger is an emotional feeling and an expression which we all have from time to time. Each and every one of us reacts to anger differently. Some people may feel a great urgency to smash something, some people shouts at the top of their lungs to vent their anger while others will remain silent throughout the entire time.
Anger can lead to destructive consequences. Sadly, most people do not have any form of training or instruction on how to deal with these emotions. As a resu…
6 Steps To Releasing Anger And Feeling Good Again
Anger is a lethal force that undermines our lives in all kinds of ways. Sometimes it erupts openly and other times it camouflages itself and covertly undermines your life. Some experience anger as strength and power. They feel it is necessary in order to maintain control. Others assume they have the right to express anger. These are some of the lies anger tells us.
In fact, when we are angry we are out of control and our ability to respond wisely is diminished. It’s time t…
Addiction To Venting
“I was up too late with my friend Peg last night,” Abigail told me in our phone session. “She was needing to vent. Then I had a problem falling asleep, but at least I was there for her.”
“How often does this happen?” I asked her.
“Oh, fairly often. At least every couple of weeks.”
“Why do you continue to listen to her?”
“Isn’t that what a good friend does?”
“How do you feel when you listen to her?”
“Kind of stressed.”
“Do you see it helping her to vent to…